My goal in life is to be one of those people who are just light. You see them and you suddenly feel so warm inside and all you want to do is hug them and tell them that they are the happiness in your life. And they look at you with the warmest light in their eyes.and you love them. May be not in a romantic way but in a way where you think how could I be happy without you , you just want to be close to them and you hope some of their light transfers onto you , where you could be a happy person in some others Life.
You can be nice , compassionate, friendly, caring , kind etc AND set boundaries, say no , choose to disengage, hold people accountable , be straight forward , feel angry etc
Don’t let the idea of being a “good person” make you believe you have to betray yourself to please others. 😊
It asks us to let go of things that no longer serve us, inorder to make space for what nurtures us.
We often give too much power to those around us. We make our healing or happiness dependent on them. Take the power back. Be your own reason for changing your Life 💌
If we are aware of the changes we need to make, but put no effort into making them – That’s the form of self betrayal 💯
Look around you. How many people do you think are settling ? Probably a hell of a lot. People settle into okay relationships,okay jobs,okay friends and an okay Life. Why? Because okay is comfortable.okay pays the bill, and provides a warm bed at night. Many people are fine with okay, and guess what ? That’s not okay.
But okay is not thrilling. It isn’t passion. It’s not life changing or unforgettable experience.okay is not a reason you you risk absolutely everything you’ve got for the smallest Chance that something absolutely amazing could happen.sometimes you need to come out of your comfort zone to experience a new experience and learn new things. Sometimes it’s not okay to settle. Some times it’s okay to take risk and fail.