The most likely asked question during New Years. what’s your resolution? even though we haven’t accomplished most of our 2k17 resolution.let us plan for 2k18
1. Learn Patience.
Have patience in life.Never be hard on yourself.sometimes things doesn’t workout as you plan and that’s okay ! Don’t overreact in some of the situation which could be handled easily.worry only about those things which still matter after the decade and not about the things which don’t even matter in a year or two. and you don’t have to get upset with the people who has nothing to do with your Life. Surround yourself only with those people who make you Happy.
2. Connect with more people.
As far as I know I was indor most of the days in 2k17, which made me to be connected with only those people I knew in 2k16. So this year this shouldn’t be the Case. I need to get my ass out. and should connect with atleast 100 random people, compliment a random stranger and wanna drink coffee with that one person who sits alone in a coffeday.
And I want to connect with more positive energy this year , I need to get out of my ‘Comfort Zone’ .
3. Learn New skills.
As I am a bad singer and love guitar I opted to learn guitar tunes. so I need to learn to play 2 guitar tunes per week So that I could learn atleast 100 songs to the end of this year. If you are a good singer or a dancer you can continue it by implementing it evryday.
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes.So it depends on you to opt something which makes your ‘Heart Happy’.
4. Learn a Language.
Learn a new Language. Learning tamil was the only Resolution I’d completed in 2k17. and I am so proud of it. and it’s just because of the people around me, movies I used to watch , and those Tnagar sales man with whom I used to fight with.
And the truth is You will never learn a new language by those useless classes, just try to speak it even though You don’t understand what you are speaking and watch as much as movies without subtitles. don’t belive me? Just give a Try !
5. Earn pocket Money.
If you are a student, I seriously suggest this option, because this makes you super Happy. earning pocket money is not something that You should go to a parttime job and all ,it’s just that earn money may be by doing some sketches , art ,jewell and selling it or by asking commission with mom to bring monthly grocery , or by doing dad’s head massage on sunday morning ! Ofcourse we all know we don’t spend our pocket money. It makes you earn more and spend less.
In the end of the year you save a certain amount of money which makes you happy because you don’t have to beg money with dad for the dress you wanted to wear on new year’s evening, you can spend your own and buy whatever you need which makes a good start to 2k19.
6.Read something everyday.
I won’t say that you should read your texts books everyday. it’s just that read , it might be a novel , a story book , or even a poem or a motivational story on internet . this will surely make a huge difference in your life .
Learning something everyday automatically makes your mind and life more productive .
Declutter is something cleaning all unusable things , first declutter all your unfit and unusable cloths from your room. start to clean everything from one end to another . this makes room for new item and makes your room clean.
Next declutter all negative people and negative thought from your mind, and make place for new people and new experience. and learn from your mistakes so that you will never repeat it again.
8. Be kind.
Be kind. because you never know the depressed side of a person who is cracking jokes and making others laugh. being kind is something that one must follow in their life .
everyone has their own darkest sides , if you can’t help them atleast be kind .
9. Make yourself a priority.
Make your own damn self a Priority. do not giveup on yourself when something goes wrong .don’t get upset on yourself when someone din’t see your worth. Love youself even though you sleep 24/7 , get zero grades in exams , don’t eat healthy.
you just have one life ,instead of valueing others, and giving more importance to them, and completly changing yourself for others. Its better to Love yourself for what You Are rather than what others wanted you to be.
Listen . This year I need to listen to people, I think every person need somebody who would listen to them when they are happy or sad. “A good Listener ” it’s something that every individual need in their Life to feel that they have somebody in their life to listen and support them. and if you have them Never let them go.
And this year I need to listen more, about people’s happy and sad stories, about their day at farewell , or their intrests etc and yeah! this year if you want a good listener ‘I am always here’.
11. Travel and make memories.
I need to travel more places this year.I need to experience new things ,eat different types of food, take lots of pictures ,meet new people.
So this year lets just travel more than last year , and make lots of memories.
12. plan and execute.
Make a to do-list every morning and try to execute it. In the begining it might be little difficult but try to follow it everyday , as days goes this will turn into weekly to-do list, monthly to-do list and than yearly. this transformation makes your life more productive and helps you to reach your goal easily.
So if you Plan Something, Execute it.
These are some of my resolutions for 2k18, and whats your’s !!!
with Love, * Dyuthi kedlaya*